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Sadia Kalam's avatar

I’ve not yet made the trip with the kids to India or Bangladesh. I too feel like a tourist every time I’ve been to either place as an adult. I’d like to plan the trip with my parents because it feels less like a tourist destination and more like an excavation of memory if the kids can imprint memory to a place.

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Janine Lim's avatar

I feel like this when I go to the Philippines! Wanting connection to my homeland, but always feeling conflicted for similar reasons. American is written all over my face and I cringe at what is considered entertainment. I am definitely an outsider. I want to feel more tender things like the memories I have of taking my baths in a galvanized steel tub during a brownout, but those days are gone. Or perhaps it’s all nostalgia.

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